Making Friends with Failure

By Ainissa Ramiriez
Published August 26,2013, at Edutopia

No one likes failure, the F-word, no matter how you sugarcoat it. But failure is a part of life. Sometimes things don’t work out. Sometimes you don’t get what you want. Stuff happens. But if we recast these situations right, we learn to create a new normal, to persevere, to learn to be more flexible, or to redirect our energies. There is a major disconnect between schools and the real world on the notion of failure. School teaches us there is only one answer for every problem. And if we don’t get it, we are a failure. This dissuades students from trying — they fear failure. We need to teach students how to make friends with failure. Read the story.